Anu was very happy in the morning. Her son was participating in an english play at school. Got up at 4.00 am to finish everything at home so that she can attend assembly function. But by the time it was 1.00 pm she was very sick as she has been unwell since last so many days, She decided to take 3 hrs break from office to take some rest and meet a doctor in the evening.
Just when she was about to reach home , her phone rang. It was her husband saying that he has been out with a friend since morning and will be coming for lunch with him. Physically, her body refused to obey, but to say a word would have again started the comments about her being antisocial, not wanting anyone to come home, unwilling to offer food to anyone etc. She spent two hrs in the kitchen and when everything was done, her husband comes home alone saying that she must not have cooked food with good intentions ( neeyat ) and so his friend did not come with him.
Be assured, she did not say a word. After another hour, it was time to go back to office while her husband, Adish decided to go and give some very urgent papers to some one Anu knows very well. the papers were a little urgent though could wait for a day
Adish offered to drop her at office and pick her back on his way back
Kids were asleep so she locked them and went ahead.. 2 hrs later, Adish picked her up and was in a very good mood. Anu asked her of what happened at the guys place where he has gone to give those papers.
'But I did not go there' was the reply.
Why , What happened , Anu asked.Did you happen to get some other urgent call, or you met someone
That was it. !
"I am not supposed to tell you everytime I go out where I was "
"No Adi, I am not even asking. I am sorry I put up that question"
"Why do you try to control me everytime. Why should I answer you where I was"
"Its not like that Adi.I never ask you where u were. Its just that you said you will give my papers so I asked if it was something very urgent which came up. Any way , do'nt worry .I wl manage tomorrow and do the job"
"You always try to control my life. You always try to tell me I am not doing anything. And now you are arguing (jaban lada rahi ho ) "and a whole lot of angry words and accusations followed. By the time they reached Home,Anu was too frustrated with the state of affair as this sort of incidents were quite a regular affair.
"Adi please , there is a limit to my patience" and then followed some severe bashing as a result her whole body is aching badly even today and she has bruises on her body.
And even today morning , when she tried to pacify him , he said I Do'nt want to live with you and will be better if u die.
A lot more things said which ........
How can so much hate come in a relationship.And She still loves him very much and wants him to be normal. She can not die as her kids are too young and she is not sure if he will be able to take care of them. She hates herself for making him hate her so much, It has to be her fault otherwise , He is a very nice and considerate person and people swear by his goodness
Can anyone tell her what to do? She has already vowed to him that she will not argue and ever ask him anything about his whereabouts. She can not leave him, loves him too much even now
How can she make him love her?
